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The ex-Mormon and post-Mormon community app Same people, way better activities. Zero callings.
MoNomo is a community app for ex-Mormons, post-Mormons, and anyone who is leaving or questioning the Mormon church. Events, resources, friends, and somewhere to yell. Built by people who left.
Free. 18+. Not affiliated with the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Who it's for
Anyone who has walked out of the Mormon church, is halfway out the door, or is standing in the foyer with questions. Resigned, inactive, mixed-faith marriage, still attending for your mom: all of it counts. Nobody here is going to ask about your timeline.
Ex-Mormon, exmormon, post-Mormon, or just "taking a break": it's for you. Pick the label you like, or none.
We left too. MoNomo is the app we wanted when we were figuring out coffee, Sundays, and who our people were going to be now. The jokes aim at the institution and the culture. Never at believers, and never at anyone's family.
What's inside
Home is Your Orbit: glowing circles you can drag around until they make sense to you. Each one opens a different part of the app.
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Gather
Events like Coffee 101, Singles (18+), and Drinks (21+). Meetups and clubs, including mission-language groups for your Portuguese, Spanish, or Tagalog. A map of public meeting places, and a button to start your own group.
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Resources
How to resign and what happens to your records. Guides for sexuality and LGBTQ+ folks. Coffee and alcohol tutorials for the newly curious. Books, films, songs, research, podcasts, therapy, and crisis lines. Not correlated. Not approved. Actually useful.
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Discuss
Topic boards for the stuff you can't bring up at Thanksgiving: faith crisis, PIMO life, family, LGBTQ+, starting over. Real people, moderated, with replies so a conversation can actually happen. Boards start fresh every Monday with one prompt from the MoNomo Team (usually written with an AI model), and past weeks stay searchable. No follow-up visits.
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Network
Your people, picked by you, not assigned by the bishopric. Add friends, find people who served in your mission, and celebrate each other's Ex-versary, the anniversary of resigning.
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News
Real headlines pulled from real sources: LDS news, post-LDS news, and a place to save the articles you want to send your sister later. We don't write it and we don't make it up.
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Journal
A private journal. Other members never see it, MoNomo staff don't read it, nothing from it shows up in your feed, and there is no interview about it afterward.
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Vent
Sanctioned venting. Unlike sacrament meeting, you are allowed to have feelings here. Break your shelf, hit the rage button, toss things in the burn box, or take the "How Ex-Mormon Are You?" quiz.
Ex or Post, your call
Done with the word "ex"? Flip one switch and the app says "post-Mormon" instead. Your words, your label.
Easter eggs
More than twenty of them, hidden around the app. We won't spoil any. We'll only say that faith is tapping the logo seven times.
Safety and privacy
Leaving can make people a target, and some of us are not out to everyone yet. Safety is built into the app, not tucked away on a help page.
- Adults only. You must be 18 or older. Drinks events are 21+, and venues check ID.
- Block and report on every profile. Blocking is instant, reports are confidential, and a human reviews them.
- Content warnings on heavy topics, so you can choose when to read them.
- Swear filter with three modes: mute it, leave it, or add more.
- Banned words you pick, folded away wherever they show up.
- You pick who sees what. Every profile item starts friends-only until you tick its Public box, your ward and church dates can be Only me, and Friends only keeps you out of search if you'd rather not be found by your old ward.
- Private journal. Your journal and vent sessions never post to your feed.
- Public places only. The map shows approximate public venues, never anyone's home.
Details in the Privacy Policy and Community Guidelines.
Questions people ask
Is MoNomo anti-Mormon?
Not the way people usually mean it. MoNomo is for people who have left the Mormon church or are questioning it. We criticize the institution and the culture, sometimes loudly, and we joke about both. We don't go after believers or anyone's family, and nobody here is trying to talk your mom out of church. Believers are welcome to read the resources.
Is MoNomo part of the LDS church?
No. MoNomo is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or connected to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
What does it cost?
Nothing. MoNomo is free, there are no ads, and we don't sell your data.
Can I read the resources without an account?
Yes. Guides, organizations, podcasts, and crisis lines are on the public Resources page, no sign-up needed.
Is there a phone app?
Yes, for Android and iPhone, in beta testing now. Until it reaches the stores, the web app works in any browser with the same account.
We're still early
Sign up, type the code we email you, and you're in. Things will be a little rough while we build. It's free, there are no ads, and we don't sell your data.
If you are in crisis
Call or text 988, the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, any time (US). You can also chat at 988lifeline.org. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.